The Brita Pitcher Runneth Over...

When living with roommates in this day and age, the Brita pitcher is the new toilet seat. Wow, that's a delightful image, isn't it?

Now, other than my brothers and my dad, I've only lived with other women. And my brothers and my dad are, all in all (dare I compliment them?) pretty well-mannered. So the toilet seat troubles have not been much of an issue in my life. But if I understand the controversy so many of my peers are embroiled in, I can only imagine that it must be something like the altercations of the Brita pitcher.

I mean, really, how hard is it to refill the Brita? If you drink it, fill it. It's common sense. And yet, refilling the Brita is one of those chores to be avoided at all costs. Much like trying to see how much trash you can balance on top of the already full trash bag and daring your roommates to chicken out first and change the bin liner, the Brita pitcher game begins as soon as the water is cold enough to start drinking. You want to catch the Brita pitcher about 2 hours after someone else went to the trouble of refilling it. Any sooner than that, and the water isn't cold and therefore, isn't good, especially if you and your roommates are also engaging in a game of chicken over who will actually replace the filter in the pitcher, which really just means that the filter hasn't been replaced in 6 months and is really not doing anything to improve the taste or quality of the water anymore, but you continue to believe that it is and it's entirely psycho-pseumatic. But if you can happen upon the pitcher in that magical full and cold state, it's like nirvana. The next trick is to pour just enough of the water into your water bottle that you get as much as possible added to your personal stash (no one's going to open your used water bottle and steal the water from there) but still leave enough in the pitcher that you're not "That bitch who left 2 tablespoons of water in the pitcher so she didn't have to refill it." It's like that game your little sister used to play with the orange juice so that she didn't have to be the one to rinse out the carton and take it to the recycling bin. You want to look like you are far above the Macchiavellian mind games of the Brita pitcher.

But let's face it, you're not. I'm not. And I'm above most things, so if I'm not above it, than you are definitely not above it. And so, like the eternal toilet seat battle between husbands and wives, roommates since the dawn of time have been engaged in political battles of wills over the Brita pitcher, bitter enough to make the most hardened game theorist wince. And until we all finally achieve the Upper West Side doorman one-bedroom that we've been dreaming of (and the corresponding salary, which will enable us to spring for one of those nice Brita filters that attach directly to the faucet, thereby rendering any pitcher politics moot, not that there would be any pitcher politics, unless maybe you had a friend over to stay on your sofabed, because there would be NO roommates in the dream pad on the Central Park West) we will continue to ponder the unanswerable question: just how much water left in the pitcher is enough win the game?